[autumnraine]

I think I am crying a river down here.

[PapaBear3625]

I worked on projects in the financial industry. 80 hour weeks were common.

Here's the key: put in the 80 hour weeks for a few years, make your money, and MOVE ON to do something else less stressful. You might even figure out a way to stash the gobs of money in a trust fund somewhere where no divorce court can get to it, before getting married.