The term for this is sh!t test (aka fitness test).
The woman is trying to see how much sh!t you will put up with from her. And, if you put up with a lot, you fail.
How many guys holding their girlfriend's/wife's purse in the middle of the mall realize they just failed a test?
I'll do a lot of things, but no. No way. Never.
I’d say this is a prime example of women viewing sex as a bargaining chip. He’s already doing it. No need to give up a chip.