Uh yeah, they are. In case you haven’t noticed, we’ve done a 180 in this society. It’s the women who are players, and the mean who mostly want to settle and be serious. 90% of the guys are done being players, if they ever were, by 25. You might have a few frat boys out there, but compare that to all the serial relationship women clear up into their 40’s and 50’s who are NEVER happy with what they have, even if they are married with a good life.
There is no loyalty anymore. Women either control you, or they are looking for the next best thing, or they let the guy run over them. It’s like they’ve all went psycho.
But at least you’re not bitter! ;-)