I thought of something similar during all the celebrations among my Facebook friends after the SCOTUS ruling. Gays will still experience much higher rates of "spousal" abuse, will still suffer from much higher rates of depression and suicide, and will still turn to drugs and high-risk sex. They will not know the joys of a stable marriage and children of their own making.
The biggest losers in this cultural shift are gays and those that they recruit to their lifestyle.
Exactly. The mental illness involves more than just making them look upon people of the same gender as sex objects—it permeates every aspect of their lives. Homosexuals who achieve a stable relationship and lifestyle analogous to a heterosexual lifestyle are, I believe, exceedingly rare—especially if they are men.