[wac3rd]

Not diabetic, but in my family on both sides
Finance
Silicon Valley
Upper Middle Class
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East Bay of SF (Walnut Creek/24 Corridor)

[Yosemitest]

With mood changes and changes in stress level, you might want to get your blood sugar checked.
Diabetes is NOT something you want to become involved with.
Finances permitting, take a well needed vacation to a place you both like, and I really like the national parks.
Finances permitting, get reservations in the park's hotel, and let God's beauty of creation sooth and refresh you.
Also realize that your wife's also dealing with body changes in the late 40s and that might be a part of it.
Look, I'm no expert, but it takes TWO to communicate, and when one party quits, it's hard for the other party to do it alone.
There are books I'd recommend, but both parties have to want it, and if one is NOT religious, THAT may be the very heart of the problem.

[Yosemitest]

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