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Posted on 07/22/2013 11:13:30 AM PDT by afraidfortherepublic
The elders are far more alert for an early lunch party. The assisted living facility should have a shuttle that can accommodate her fellow residents with advance planning. On site or at a local restaurant, include her closest/favorite caregivers in the head count. They will sincerely appreciate the thoughtfulness.
A champagne toast to your Mom with lunch and your mother's favorite birthday cake are very appropriate.
We shall use the assisted living private party room. Mom refuses to leave the building, so an off site location is out of the question.
I do.
We ate by a fire. She picked out the food ahead of time. The girls spruced her up, too. Did her hair, makeup, and gave her a manicure (ourselves).
No fire in Fresno, CA in August. It’s 110 there at this time! LOL. And I’ll see to it that she has hr hair and nails done the day before. It’s her regular appointment, anyway.
I don’t know your Mother but you do. If it were me, I’d prefer to have a small intimate group of people I truly love and look forward to seeing. I would enjoy being taken out for a nice dinner and flowers. Perhaps have a hairdresser come in early to do her hair so that she feels pretty. Perhaps a nice new dress to wear to dinner.
I like the photo tribute albums of yesterday.
Remember that the elderly tire easily, so a big party , might be overwhelming. Perhaps a cake and ice cream social in the diningroom afterwards for those at the facility.
A suggestion....for my mother-in-law’s 80th birthday, we gave her 80 small presents (that one can buy at a local dollar store). Wrapped all the presents and it looked like a lot! :-) People always like to open presents...now....a 100 presents (at a dollar each) might seem to be a lot, but if several people got several (dollar) presents (about 10 per person if 10 people attended) it would be very doable....FReegards, FRiend.....
Clever. And the first present would be a small pair of scissors!
Well, the elders have trouble opening packages. I wasn’t trying to be funny — just practical. ;^)
Yeah, his very own signature written by an Autopen machine.
Understood, friend. :-)
Call your Congressman or Senator and have a flag flown over the Capital on the day of her birthday.
Present her a certificate for it on her birthday, only takes a few weeks after to get the flag.
I will also be a great memory of the day for you later.
Nice idea. I ordered an August 21, 1913 newspaper in a presentation folder for her today. On the certificate I had them write: “An historic newspaper for an historic newswoman”. I was careful to avoid the word “old”. She taught Journalism for about 30 years and is still a member of the California Presswomen.
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