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I Do Not Want My Daughter to Be ‘Nice’
New York Times ^ | July 31, 2013 | Catherine Newman

Posted on 07/31/2013 1:05:05 PM PDT by nickcarraway

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1 posted on 07/31/2013 1:05:05 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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Wow, I feel bad for the author's kid.

And for me, too, for reading this drivel. Talk about a bunch of projection.

2 posted on 07/31/2013 1:10:51 PM PDT by wbill
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3 posted on 07/31/2013 1:12:55 PM PDT by JoeProBono (Mille vocibus imago valet;-{)
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This is the end game of the radical Commies on society.

In the end, it will be us vs. them. The angry God-haters and the feral ‘yoots vs. us.


4 posted on 07/31/2013 1:14:13 PM PDT by wac3rd (Somewhere in Hell, Ted Kennedy snickers....)
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The daughter sounds like an angry vegan lesbian-in-training, son may also be gay.

But I am sure that they are all very “moral.”


5 posted on 07/31/2013 1:15:44 PM PDT by paterfamilias
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Her daughter in 30 years:


6 posted on 07/31/2013 1:15:55 PM PDT by 11th_VA (It's all about culture, not color)
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I could feel the nausea rising up in my throat as I read the exceprt. No freaking way will I click that link only to spew what was a delicious lunch.


7 posted on 07/31/2013 1:16:38 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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The daughter sounds like an angry vegan lesbian-in-training, son may also be gay.

LOL! I had much the same thought.

Mom might want to take a look at her parenting skills. One screwed up kid is an outlier, two is a pattern.

8 posted on 07/31/2013 1:18:03 PM PDT by wbill
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No kidding. Nice is such a waste of time? Being pleasant to others? You bet/ sarc


9 posted on 07/31/2013 1:18:07 PM PDT by bboop (does not suffer fools gladly)
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Note to the author - if you’re nice to people out of an expectation of some direct reward, then you’re not really a nice person.


10 posted on 07/31/2013 1:19:34 PM PDT by Jack of all Trades (Hold your face to the light, even though for the moment you do not see.)
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...if your daughter is being raised by a loud mouthed, obnoxious liberal Feminist that writes for the New York Times, you won’t have to worry about her being “nice” to anyone ever...


11 posted on 07/31/2013 1:20:11 PM PDT by Tzimisce (The American Revolution began when the British attempted to disarm the Colonists.)
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The Helen Thomas pic I coulda done without.


12 posted on 07/31/2013 1:20:14 PM PDT by Argus
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One screwed up kid is an outlier, two is a pattern.

Well put. Your kid is also screwed up if you name them "Birdy".

13 posted on 07/31/2013 1:20:25 PM PDT by GOP_Party_Animal
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yup, trust me, it's not worth the clicking. Lemme summarize - "Blah Blah Blah. I hate men. My daughter is following in my footsteps, as I project all of my flaws and insecurities on to her. The End."

I was wondering if it was a satire or something......nope.

14 posted on 07/31/2013 1:20:32 PM PDT by wbill
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My 10-year-old daughter, Birdy, is not nice

Might happen when you name a kid 'Birdy'.

15 posted on 07/31/2013 1:21:02 PM PDT by Tanniker Smith (Rome didn't fall in a day, either.)
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I’ve been hearing more and more that ‘nice’ is something that’s expected by women of men. You don’t get credit for being a pleasant, caring man.

I don’t understand this attitude. Seems like a good recipe for some terrible relationships. Kindness is always appreciated. A woman who’s unappreciative of kindness is probably not one you want to date.


16 posted on 07/31/2013 1:21:50 PM PDT by JCBreckenridge ("we are pilgrims in an unholy land")
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“She is deeply kind, profoundly compassionate and, probably, the most ethical person I know”

Really, at 10 years old? We should all agree the author is the most wonderful mother on the planet.


17 posted on 07/31/2013 1:23:27 PM PDT by Catphish
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if you’re nice to people out of an expectation of some direct reward, then you’re not really a nice person

Well, Al Capone always said that "You get farther with a smile and a gun, than just a smile."

But this author likely hates guns. And smiling. And, I'll guess Al Capone, as well, because he's a dead white guy.

So what's my point? I don't have one, other than I thought that the quote was relevantly snarky. :-)

18 posted on 07/31/2013 1:24:05 PM PDT by wbill
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Screwed up moms will have screwed up kids.


19 posted on 07/31/2013 1:24:48 PM PDT by BenLurkin (This is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion or satire; or both.)
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There are girls like that. When you become a teenager, your true character manifests itself, and you start to do what you think is appropriate. It may be wrapped in contemporary fads, but your real self comes through. Often, the parents don’t like it.


20 posted on 07/31/2013 1:26:28 PM PDT by proxy_user
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