R2nd, I am not sure you fully appreciate the hell these children must’ve gone through. This might have been very healing, if their pain was ignored, even condoned, all those years.
Perhaps, but forgiveness is the answer.
While I see some positive steps (in the obit) the children are taking - they will never begin to recover without forgiving their mother.
I saw your earlier post regarding your husband of 23 years? Do you mind if I ask you a personal question? You don’t have to answer.
Did you forgive him?