You are like me, he is like she.
Its why I dont clean up after. Ill do the garbage, gather the plates etc, but not dishes
Mytake is, Id love to clean up, but you need to use my model for efficiency.
Its far less agitating to do the little guys homework with him.
Say she just made soup.
My wife will fill a used pan with soapy water and let it sit.
I will take advantage of the fact that it is warm and clean it right away.
And the other pet peeve, starting to cook without putting the dishes in the drainer away.
Harder to do the immediate clean on the pans if the drainer is full of stuff.