I don't think I am any where near the kind of old woman you are describing and I wasn't “throwing in with them” in any way other than age.
Butt kicked? Why, because I call 'em as I see 'em? This is what I mean, challenging street talk with nothing behind it and no idea how it's properly used.
Old women do not "kick butts." They make stupid cawing sounds and strut around like thirteen year old boys discovering puberty. They're pathetic.