The fight will never end - that’s Biblical. It will assume various forms. One is direct confrontation and the other is quiet assimilation.
The Jihadists will not have a change of heart and stay within their own enclaves. They seek the annihilation of Israel and the west.
The best defense against them is a good offense. Keeping them corralled in their own cesspool is what needs to be accomplished.
How that has been and should be done is a matter of debate.
If the corral is NOT built in the Middle East, then it has to be built at our own borders. That means more NSA involvement and loss of personal freedoms. That means adopting ways of protecting ourselves similar to that of Israel. And even that is not 100% certain.
There hasn’t been a major terrorist attack here since 9/11. Has that just been dumb luck or has our “taking the fight to the enemy” made the difference?
There have always been sacrifices for freedom and security. It doesn’t come without a price in today’s world. Who will make the sacrifices?
I, like you, am torn.