“My sons and his friends say that all the girls want men as friends.
No interest in the future or children.”
You can explain to your son that when a girl says she wants to be “friends” with a man, she’s preempting the expectation of sex for buying her dinner.
The dating culture (as opposed to the friend culture) demands sex on the third date. No sex, no fourth date. No fourth date, no marriage.
The girls your son knows are just trying to find their way to marriage and children without having to sleep with twenty-five men to get there.
Young women created the “friend zone” as a way to spend time with men, while working around the sex-on-the-third-date-culture they were born into. Don’t hate the players; hate the game.
So wrong on many levels
If a woman puts you in the "friend zone" that means she isn't attracted to you. Once you are in the friend zone it's almost impossible to get out. Marriage with you is the last thing she has on her mind.
The sad reality is if you are in the "friend zone", more than likely she is just sleeping with some other/multiple players & thugs, but she is using you to fill her emotional needs.
You are basically subsidizing some other guy's penis, you do the work & spend the money, but it's the other guy who gets the prize.
Young women created the friend zone as a way to spend time with men, while working around the sex-on-the-third-date-culture they were born into. Dont hate the players; hate the game.
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I am not sure that is true. Friend zone as far as I can see is a place that girls get to pretend that lots of guys are friends and it is like notched in their belts. The girls know they have the upper hand in the game. Sort of a who is popular game girls play among themselves.