he didn’t stop though, did he? guys sounds like a real menace.
Hard to say he is a menace. He didn’t barge in on her drunk and needing comfort from a friend. It is the exact opposite. She burst into his room.
‘He was a friend of mine and I trusted him. It was a freezing Friday night when I stumbled into his dorm room after too many drinks.’
So a 18 - 22 year old is in his dorm room, a friend of his, who happens to be a female, comes to his room drunk but functioning. She aperantly consented to being kissed and felt up. Once he started kissing aggressively she asked him to stop kissing aggressively. He said you got me excited finish me off and she complied.
Did she stay the night? Did she call for help? Did she scream? Did she say NO? NO she ‘obeyed’. She relented, complied, gave in.
I understand that she was intoxicated, but he didn’t make her drunk. I understand that she felt pressured, but he didn’t stumble into her room.
She doesn’t seem to have reported the ‘assault’ to the police. She told her RA who basically said, ‘sounds like you got what you asked for. I doubt the school will even investigate.’ After that she dropped it. She doesn’t seem to want the ‘perpetrator’ to be thrown into prison or even thrown out of school. She wants to have him moved from one building to another.
The School said SHE COULD MOVE. But that was too disempowering for her. So the school should acquiesce to a students desire to disrupt another student over a completely unverifiable ‘crime’ that wasn’t even reported?