If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.
Real men put the seat down because they don’t want to be woken from a sound sleep at 2 a.m. by a pregnant woman past her due date who sat into the toilet instead of onto it because they forgot.
It’s just one of those little ways to show you care.
If you really care, you'll leave the seat up. She will only make the mistake of sitting in the commode once.
Putting the seat down will deprive her of a valuable life lesson. ALWAYS look before you sit on anything. The ass you save, could be your own.