He was not from the area, so didn’t know.
Yes, it’s awkward and best done quickly. The origin, of course, is to create the next couple. And there’s no better way to get to know someone than to slide your hands up under her dress!
I don’t think that’s a Pittsburgh tradition, isn’t that a national tradition? it really is so stupid, and that’s exactly what the 20 somethings at the bridal party table thought! at our wedding my maid of honor caught the bouquet, and her fiancé caught the garter, which was fine. Of course, she is the one who left him just a week or two ago, so....