I think nearly every American has always believed that one marriage is as valid as the next.
But redefining marriage is not 'equality' in theory or practice. And browbeating people until they give the desired answer in a poll is not the same thing as 'support.'
Moreover, intellectually grasping these concepts and writing about same is not 'homophobia.' It's logic.
Another byproduct of feminism and generations of boys raised without fathers in the house.