Posted on 06/10/2015 7:11:58 AM PDT by don-o
I have written before about my journey to become a no exceptions prolifer. I have never shared this story publicly, but I think the time is right.
In 2011, I worked very hard to make sure that our ultrasound law was passed in Texas. It was a good bill and I was proud to support it. It did have a rape exception, but I figured that wasnt really a big deal since there are so few babies aborted that are conceived in rape. I mean its less than 1% lets just work to save the 99%, right?
The bill was passed and shortly after that I had a one on one conversation with Rebecca Kiessling. Rebecca was conceived in a very violent rape against her birth mother. Even though I know she probably wanted to wring my neck because I supported these discriminatory bills, she was so patient with me explaining the nuances of being a no exceptions prolifer. After several conversations with her, a lot of prayer, and a lot of reading, I realized that I had been wrong. I realized that to support a bill with a rape exception would be devaluing those who had already been so greatly marginalized.
So, I decided to do something about it. I had been such a huge voice in getting our ultrasound bill passed I wanted to make it right and remove the rape exception. I made the decision that removing the rape exception would be my only priority in the 2013 session (Texas only has legislative session every other year).
I went back to one of the key legislators behind the bill (who I was very close to) and told him that my ONLY goal this legislative session was to close that rape exception.
His response was, That isnt going to happen, Abby. You need to find something else. Deals were made to several different politicians to get that passed and the deals included exceptions for rape. I wont go back on those deals. It would be bad business for me. Wow. So we make deals on the backs of babies conceived in rape. I sat there with tears in my eyes. I couldnt believe that I had fallen for the idea that one day we would go back to protect them all. That had been a total lie.
So, I thought bigger. I said to myself okay, then lets go after the exceptions in the Hyde amendment. I went to the Hill and made some appointments with several prolife legislators. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM told me that they would NEVER try to repeal the exceptions in the Hyde Amendment. One of them actually told me that if he went after that, it would be an election killer for him. I had one female legislator tell me that closing any rape exceptions would be unkind to women who had been raped. Seriously?? Unkind? Unkind for who? It is certainly not unkind for these unborn babies. And it cant be unkind for a woman who has conceived in rape to have equal rights and information as women who have not conceived in rape.
So that was it for me. I knew that we had to have clean bills go in and clean bills come out because our politicians will NEVER allow rape exceptions to be closed. To be perfectly honest, they dont want them closed.
All the time I hear, We will just pass this bill and then we will go back for the 1%. Really now? How many times have people gone back for those babies? 5 times? 10 times? Nope. NEVER. We have never gone back. And apparently, we never will because of those pesky deals that were made on the lives of these marginalized children. The people who keep saying that we will go back are the people who have no ability to actually go back and close the gap. The only people who can do that are our politicians, and they wont do it as long as we dont demand it. We have already told them over and over again that these children arent as important.
So, how do we get our politicians to stop including the rape exception? Well, first, the prolife movement has to take a stand a strong one. We have to stop accepting these rape exceptions and stand against any bills where they are included. And then we need to tell these politicians that IF THEY PUT RAPE EXCEPTIONS IN BILLS OR IF THEY VOTE FOR THEM, then we will vote them out. We need to tell them that they will lose our endorsement. WE have to stand strong and hold them accountable.
You see, they keep doing it because we keep allowing it.
If the prolife movement would take a stand against these bills with exceptions, they would think twice about adding them in the first place. If we said to these politicians, If you put in a rape exception, we will make sure this is your last term, they would stop. But we dont! We just roll over and accept them!!
I am an incrementalist but not if a bill is discriminatory against a particular group of people. When people give me the burning building analogy, my answer is simple. My goal is to prevent the fire from starting so that we dont have to choose whose life is valuable. If you ran into a burning building to save children, would you only pick the ones that had a certain hair color or were a certain ethnicity? Because that is what you are doing when you support these bills. You are picking and choosing who has value and who is worth saving.
Would you support a bill that said only white babies should be protected from abortion? Would you support a bill that said abortions would be performed on all babies unless their parents are college educated? Would you support a bill that only protected babies from abortion as long as they are male? No? Why not? Because that would be sexist? Because that would be racist? Because that would be discriminatory? Yes, you are right. These bills are just as discriminatory as bills that allow babies in rape to be killed.
You may say, But Abby, could that actually work? Why yes, yes it can. States like Georgia and Michigan has NEVER passed a bill with an exception. Why? Because their legislators know that if they even suggest that an exception should be added to a bill, they will lose their endorsement. It can work. It does work. But it wont happen unless we actually start acting like we are seriously prolife and take a stand!
One of our children is the product of an abusive situation. I cant tell you how painful it is, as his mother, to scroll through my Facebook newsfeed and see so many of my prolife friends supporting bills that marginalize his life that say that his life does not have equal value. Because when I hold him and look at his face, I see that he is destined for something incredibly special. He is equally human, equally valuable, equally worthy of life, and deserves equal protection. And most importantly, he is equally precious in the eyes of God.
And while I hurt for my own child, I cant even imagine how painful this is for people like Rebecca Kiessling. To see her friends support a bill that says her life isnt valuable?? I cant even fathom that type of hurt and betrayal.
So, the question is this. Would you support a bill that only allowed white babies to be aborted? If you would not, then you should stop discriminating against children conceived in rape. Say no to rape exceptions. Stand up, have courage and stop accepting the exception.
What do you think? If any man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go and search for the one that is straying? If it turns out that he finds it, truly I say to you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine which have not gone astray. So it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones perish. Matthew 18:12-14
The rape exception is a hammer with which to pound pregnant rape victims, very many of whom do not feel they want to repay one crime with another but who are subject to coercion from their families and even from the rapists.
Sophies choice.
sophies choice should have been to save her children and die in their place, no?
That wasn’t the choice given. She had to chose which child would die. The authors solution is to have both children die.
What does that have to do with this abortion article?
Presidential candidate, Rand Paul:
The thing is about abortionand about a lot of thingsis that I think people get tied up in all these details of, sort of, youre this or this or that, or youre hard and fast (on) one thing or the other, Paul told Elliott. Ive supported both bills with and without (exceptions), you know. In general, I am pro-life.
Rand Paul:
BLITZER: So, just to be precise, if you believe life begins at conception, which I suspect you do believe that, you would have no exceptions for rape, incest, the life of the mother, is that right?
PAUL: Well, I think that once again puts things in too small of a box. What I would say is that there are thousands of exceptions.
The GOP’s 2012 nominee, Mitt Romney:
August 27, 2012 CBS interview with Scott Pelley:
PELLEY: Well, the platform as written at this convention for the Republicans does not allow for exceptions on abortion with regard to the health of the mother or rape or incest. Is that where you are?
ROMNEY: No. My position has been clear throughout this campaign. Im in favor of abortion being legal in the case of rape and incest, and the health and life of the mother.
The “burning building” analogy ought also to be applied to the “question” of when human life begins (as if science has not already spoken on this). Firefighters do not assume there is “no life inside” when they receive an emergency call. They take the question seriously and check into it. It is a high priority for them.
Encouraging rape victims to have a life pondering the innocent one that she caused to die alongside the guilty one that got to live after two years in jail.
Poor thing is punishing the bird in the hand because she can’t hurt the beast that hurt her.
chris37 here is the perfect thread for you to correct us on our pro-life views.
A pro-abortion poster on freerepublic is difficult to ignore.
Aren’t you going to correct our pro-life position on this most appropriate thread?
That is a childish reaction to a pro-life thread.
But it does let everyone know where you are, on abortion.
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