Good grief!
There’s ALWAYS two parties at fault. Civilization has proven over the centuries that society should put the onus on the male.
It’s not fair to him, but it’s fairest for society over all.
I taught my daughter that no man should ever lay a hand on her in anger. In the next sentence I taught her to never put herself in a mans position when it came to that. If she swings first at a guy, then she’s in the wrong.
Obviously if she feels life in danger etc. use the gun.
Have you seen some of those women that played soccer the other night?
Abby Wambaugh? If she swings on you, you better defend yourself or they’ll be doing reconstructive surgery on your face.