I am troubled that my heart is hardened to these type people, but I just haven’t been able to force myself to give a damn about the effects brought about by their cause. In fact, I quite relish it when *they* are the ones victimized, mostly because I know they intended for me to be the victim.
Think of it this way, you don't have a hardened heart, you are just not interfering with God's laws of reaping and sowing.