[Mathews]

My Dad had a bonfire and beer for every single kid in the Family who graduated from 1988 to present. Cousins and all. Never had any issues. We all looked forward to the graduations. There won't be another one though until his Grand kids graduate.

[Vigilanteman]

That might work fine for family and even extended family where they can be reasonably sure someone doesn’t have too many and isn’t driving home. Not a great idea otherwise.