Obviously no women like this “Jolene” person have ever existed, and if they did they wouldn't want some other woman's man. The only way relations of that sort occur is because the lust of the men victimized them.
If you think events like those described in this song ever happen, you need to spend $1200 to $1400 for an “Every Man's Battle” workshop. Your lust is out of control.
And don't go saying that sin is a human characteristic, not just a male characteristic. Step out of your denial. And spend your money.