At the end they wanted to give my MIL morphine and at first I refused but she was in a lot of pain so I finally agreed. I’m glad I did.
Yes! Any pain medication they need!! They are NOT going to
become “drug addicts” this late in the game! So, whatever
they need to keep them reasonably comfortable as possible.
My father died over 14 yrs. ago at the age of 81. He stated
that he did NOT want to be kept living on “machines” as that
was NOT living! He said he was ready to go; that he had
really been surprised that he made it to 70 yrs. as he was
a combat veteran of WWII in N. Africa, Italy & Germany and
shell-shocked all to pieces. - It’s a very difficult thing
to deal with; but you will get through it. - Do the best
you all can do & just love him!