In my experience and ymmv, but men tend to want to act like real jerks and then forget about it. I find it impossible to “move on” if I’ve been yelled at, cussed at, insulted, publicly humiliated, called ugly names had things thrown at me, been stuck in a car during a road rage incident- none of this is shelter worthy abuse but it’s pretty impossible to live with.
I have no idea if this was your habit or anyone else’s on this board, but, it seems like us venusians get blamed for harboring bad thoughts and blames and I just don’t think it’s reasonable for a man to do the above and have us somehow not care.
Just my observations and not just personal.
Here Here. Funny how this article became about how men and women relate and fight, not how they react to mindfullness meditation. I do think if those men commenting had of understood their females (which they seem to say is impossible) more, they wouldn’t have gotten yelled at as much, as well, maybe the females wouldn’t have bitched if the men were more gentle. Bad cycle, too bad cuz both have so many positive attributes. I liked the way the males said they “meditated”. Funny stuff.
Gee, it looks like you’ve been really unlucky with men. My husband does none of that. I haven’t really experienced that with other men, either.