Innate leadership qualities, generally speaking, don’t exist in females. They are extremely rare in men as well. Leaders are rare. In my lifetime, I believe I’ve seen two actual leaders, Reagan and Trump.
But I should warn you in advance, Bellflower, just for the sake of honesty, I am a very proud sexist pig, I don’t have a wife, likely never will, because I am just not willing to give up my freedom, and I prefer to spend almost all of my free time with dogs. So, there we go, take my opinion for what its worth.
There are women who are leaders of other women, as should be.
Sorry for you.
Song of Solomon 8:7
Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.