[Harmless Teddy Bear]

The fact that she was putting requirements on the ring should have been a clue.

I got lavender jade. Technically only semi-precious but I like it and it did not break the bank. He protested that he should spend three month's salary on the ring. I told him that was silly when we could be using that money for a house payment.

Oh and yes, she should give it back if she is a decent person. Which she probably isn't.

[NorthMountain]

if she is a decent person. Which she probably isn't.

I think that is established with the "must have requirements" bit ...

[Tax-chick]

I have blue topaz. It’s pretty. Cost about $300 in 1988.