If you had read an earlier post of mine you would have discovered that I have lived in Japan since 1985 .
Your world is still small if you espouse the beliefs that a woman having 3 children and no boyfriend or husband is rare. I could care less if you lived in 51 countries. Just because you lived in Japan doesn’t mean you got out very much in Japan and met people. How very naive of you to think location translates to an expanded world. It’s not location it is what you do at that location that expands your world. Apparently, you didn’t get out very much even in Japan to think like this.
I have spoken to people all over the world. People from Australia, Singapore, people from the Middle East and Europe, from South America to Eastern Europe. And yet, I have never been outside the USA. I have met many women around the world not married with 3 or more children. I have also met unmarried men who were raising 3 or more children and no wife. Like I said it doesn’t matter where you lived, it matters how you got out and met people. I reiterate you live in a small world. You lived in Japam...bah! You might as well have lived on the moon asfar as anyone cares.
Are you dyslexic and autistic ?