An “Honorable” is not a lord, he is a commoner. Too far down the pecking order. Means your father is a younger son of a lord (you have a courtesy title as “lord” but the older son got the real title). And his kid is a commoner.
It’s better to be a commoner anyway.
” his kid is a commoner.”
‘Wait, what...I thought you said you were a Lord, you know Lord as in lands and a castle? Three weeks, I must have been crazy!’