I hope you don’t take my questions as too forward.
First, does she live with you? It sounds like she does not.
Second, do you or your wife have any underlying medical issues that would make you more susceptible to complications from COVID-19 ?
Like it or not, some people do get sick from COVID-19 to the point that they require more medical attention.
If you have underlying medical issues that would make you more susceptible to complications from COVID-19, you have a legitimate heightened interest in your and your wife’s health (not to mention your daughters, regardless).
So if either of you have the underlying medical issues and if she goes, once she returns, she should exercise due diligence and perhaps keep her distance for 10-14 days.
great post.
“...If you have underlying medical issues..”
Everyone over 70 has “underlying medical issues” even if you aren’t aware of them. And a whole bunch of younger people do to.