Yes the other party did not say it nicely. However where there is a will there is a way. When my father i. law got out of ICU we moved him into our house. I slept on a couch outside his door with a baby monitor in his room and was instantly there any time he moved. I did this while working full time and shared duties with my husband who was also working full time. And we had a 6 year old. It depends on your priorities. Most people in nursing homes could be cared for by relatives
PS...we keep in touch with her and provide for other needs and wants...and my husband was least favorite of hers. His sister and her 2 daughters do nothing...since they are now not able to bleed $$$ from her any longer.