I have never understood the love for this woman as a “conservative.” It’s probably just shtick and a pose for her to make some money. She always sounds shallow and kind of dumb to me, like the Republican version of the usual Dem airhead yapping non-stop and debating badly on Fox.
As for her men problems, no comment. Who knows where she meets this type of man. It’s probably not at the church social.
That’s the thing. She says you don’t have to be Brad Pitt, or rich, etc, but you do have to be going somewhere.
But apparently, you’ve got to pour your attention into one and only one ‘woman of substance’ and then bet that they are going to be interested. That’s apparently what ‘single’ means in her perspective - me and only me until I’m done with you.
Most guys who are nice can’t get the time of day.
Also, women shouldn’t be chasing men, period. That’s her position.
So if a women of substance sees similar man who’s so shell shocked by the invective of Karens like Tomi that he just does his job, goes home, and is prayerfully grateful nobody falsely accused him of sexual harassment at work, said woman shouldn’t indicate to said man who is no longer paying attention that she’s interested.
Makes no sense to me. Nothing in her screed contains anything some poor slob who would LOVE to date a ‘women of substance’ can grab on to and put to work.
I was divorced after 25 years when I lost my business. Her thing was ‘you’re not meeting your financial obligation’. So the ‘poorer’ thing didn’t really register in the moment.
Fast forward four years later and I’m way past six figures and she’s going to baseball games and country music concerts, or having to flee Canada in the middle of the night because the idiot she’s dating turned out to be a predator.
She hates all three - baseball, country music, and Canada. Predators, however, seem to be sexy.
She was even supporting some sluggard and trying to get my kids to call him ‘Dad’. She’s got a Masters.
Best thing that ever happened to me, her divorcing me. My kids, however, are paying for that jelly donut every day.
Here’s some counter advice for everyone - men or women:
1. Want what you’ve already got - don’t take it for granted.
2. Listen. Just listen. Then walk away and think about it for a while. Then get together and talk again.
3. You don’t need to be in the mood, or high energy, to have sex with each other. Just get going and you’ll be shocked to find that, like pizza, sex is always good, even though the quality varies on a day to day basis. Goes for guys and girls.
4. Thank God every single day for the smallest things you’ve got. The ability to get out of bed, the roof over your head, the food in your pantry, your job, your health, the ability to walk to the corner market for a gallon of milk and the ability to walk back with the gallon without pain. All of it. And the girl or guy lying next to you in bed willing to put up with your crap and still go down on you.
And in general, just shut up. Be quiet. Lead by example. Shut the f*ck up. Do like you want to be done to, and hang with people that act like you do. Most of these ‘trash people’ problems will solve themselves.