I really don’t know anything about the situation you describe, nor do I want to. But I do know this. When a man defends his woman ( yes even if that means... oh no a slap!) it is about the sexiest thing he can do. You don’t have to agree with it, and you don’t have to like it, but you do have to live with it because it’s the truth.
“Sexiest thing” for who?
How is it sexy if he let's other men sleep with his wife (for her maybe if she is a sex maniac)?
And how does all that plague of black on black violence make anyone feel sexy? And how come Smith first of all laughs at the joke then turns round and goes violent right after that?