Somebody is gunning for Dr. Ruth's old gig...
Follow the science!
The wham! Bam! Thank you, M’am! school of relationships!
I knew I was on to something...
‘Relationship expert” for the WEF? I bet she backs trans sex shows for children too.
Same as how the number of “diversity, equity, and inclusion” directors is inversely proportional to the quality of race relations.
The older I get, the more conservative I get socially. We are not meant to be animals. We are not meant for indiscriminate sex. We are not meant to have meaningless sex.
So instead of dating to see if you want to have sex, you have sex to see if you want to date. Makes sense.
Does the Bible say anything about this?
My wife and I did
Still married 21 years
Why get married if you get the milk for free? I pity the children of these one-night encounters.
“Relationship expert” trying to justify why so many young women have become bed hopping sluts.
That's like showing your hand at the poker table. Or introducing her to all your relatives (or your exes) before she gets to know you.
Actually, I could go on, but you get the idea.
The reason the Woke movement wants to encourage sex on the first date is because Woke means Marxism and Marxism means all devotion must be directed at the collective/group, not at other individuals (like spouses or love interests). If you have sex before you get to know the other person, she is demoted to "sex object" before you can form an emotional attachment.
I’ll stick with the third date rule...
No NO.
"Women who have sex with men before they're married KNOW the man is breaking the rules with them. So, once married, they are afraid he'll do the same thing again, with another woman...break the rules. They don't trust him. They call him all of them time and want to know where he is and what he's doing. This trust breakdown causes the divorces."
While I’m not endorsing random promiscuity.
I will say in my life the women/girls I had the deepest emotional relationships with were also the ones we had mutual physical attraction. All my biggest failures were ones we either didn’t physically click or didn’t become physical with at all.
STD’s be damned!
“Relationship expert” pfffft...
As it applies to the author, Miss Pincushion, maybe that’s the best she can get. I come at this from two perspectives. Once a male whore in the 80’s and at least early 90’s and later as the father of three girls.
There are times when there’s going to be sex on the first date- simply because it’s not a date. It’s a chance encounter, with an even better chance that you’ll never see each other again. A drunken night of partying where two consenting adults end up in bed is not a date.
Then, there are the others. The ones you are willing to put in effort. I’ve been married twice, the most recent for over 22 years. I waited and built a relationship first with both of them. Unfortunately, contestant number 1 was as much of a whore as I was and found “better” in short order. It’s never really worked out for her, having at least 6 failed relationships after me. Contestant number 2 has lasted. Though, she is patient (and Asian), she’s no pushover. In every other way, she’s as American as can be, but when it comes to faithfulness she’s old school.
I always tell my daughters about how men can be pigs, but even pigs can be trained. Mostly. men just want what women want. A reliable, faithful partner. But, if you carry yourself as a partier just to be accepted, you’ll be treated as a partier. Carry yourself as a serious woman, and a man will either respect you and work for your hand, or they’ll leave. Either way, the outcome is preferred.
Pontificating morons are an unfortunate part of modern existence.