I listened to maybe 15 minutes before I dozed off and yeah that seemed to be the gist of it. Modern makeup and other beautification rituals coupled with social media, advertising, overly accessible porn, and skanky clothing has made female beauty out to be, in impressionable minds, the be all end all goal in life to achieve happiness and adulation. Not good with words and not a psychologist but I’m sure it has something to do with it. Women’s lib and the sexual liberation movement may have seemed like a good idea at the time but I think God might be showing us what happens when we stray out of the confines of his admonishments.
These men are actually imagining they are as close as possible to being inside of a woman’s body. They lay in bed, self-pleasuring themselves, believing themselves to be stimulating the gorgeous woman of their fantasy. The Silence of the Lambs character is really an offshoot of this persona.
I haven’t seen any part of the video, but this is something I surmised, decades ago, from behaviors I’d seen and discussions I’d had, with similar guys who admitted they were attracted to women, while others went the next step and were fully gay, in the submissive role as the woman.
I’d guess you’d call the latter example as “fully down for the cause.”