I didn’t know a single “feminist” mom in my neighborhood while growing up. I do know that most of those mothers had gone to work by 1975.
The only Mom in our area who went to work was a nurse who had to do it. Her husband was in prison for sexually assaulting a girl. Otherwise, all were stay-at-home.
That system also provided a group of trustworthy women neighbors who would help keep an eye on all the kids. It was a network of loving moms instead of potentially creepy daycare providers.