Well we know that you’re really into that. Meanwhile there is reality. And in reality there’s LOTS of stories of folks that just never cottoned to the whole “child rearing” thing. The first place you can find these stories is in the lives serial killers. Lots and lots of them started live with parents never clicked and really shouldn’t have had them. Charles Mason, Ted Bundy, Ed Gein. Unwanted kids exist. Luckily not all of them become serial killers, but still, things probably suck pretty hard for the ones that don’t go that path too. I recognized that in myself at an early age, just did not like kids, not even when I was one. Didn’t want em. Had an “accident” happened it probably would have really sucked for everybody. Especially the kid. I at least could have become a workaholic and never gone home.
They world is full of scum and monsters.
But, then, there's the rest of us.