First you said: I think we can completely dismiss your opinion.
Which is DEFINITELY trying to pick a fight. And I didn’t self identify with serial killers, once again you’re reading poorly. I said many serial killers were unwanted kids. Which proves that there ARE parents that never connect with their kids.
You don’t have to understand it. Just acknowledge it without being rude. Often times the people this is happening to feel really bad about it. Which probably doesn’t help them. Imagine living with someone whose very existence makes you feel guilty. Adding to that won’t help them bond with their kids.
Got it.