fine that is your view, I disagree .
Govt is involved in marriage regardless how many times a liberal tarian keeps shouting Govt out of my life
They have justice of the peace which we got married, not you , we have divorce, hell who do you think will say you get the kids and the house and dog.
as for your last line , habe you actually thought past the slogan of Govt out of my life about who gets the kids, yes Govt
If you want marriage as 4 women and one guy, two men, or a horse and a man then so be it but don;t be suddenly shocked to find others think that is whacky
I have zero idea what you said