It truly is sad when these perverts equate love and lust. In other words, if you love someone, you must want to have sex with them. How disgusting.
Boy, you said it!
There is a profound difference.
There was one of these guys on the radio here a few weeks ago. He seemed to have no clue that the Gospel of John was written in Greek, and Greek has 4 different words for the word "love." "Eros" is sexual love, it is not the word in these passages. So now they'll have to make up something else.
I think their basic "moral law" is that "every man should do what is right in his own eyes."