[temijin]

Well said, we all face temptation, it's how we deal with it that is a part of who we are. Some temptations I give in to and others I fight on a daily basis. This is everymans war, how you fight it, or choose not to is one of the few free choices you have left, but make no mistake about it is a choice.

[WackyKat]

I feel that I was born heterosexual and certainly never made a conscious choice to become heterosexual- that is just what I always have been.
I don't see why it should be any different for most homosexuals.
Furthermore, I've always thought the "born or choice" debate to be a pointless one