[RobbyS]

What the gentleman is pointing out is that many homosexuals do prefer "open relationships." Maybe you all want "marriage" simply to give more permanence to relationships by making it harder for the partner to leave. I suggest that in a society in which one marriage in two breaks up because "love" is the only glue, that this won't happen. Maybe lesbian relationships will benefit more than gay ones. I remember a remark from my psychology professor a long time ago: women love with their whole body; men only with their penis. But my opinion, bottom line, is that gay marriage is only a mock marriage, even more so than the romantic couplings that led straight people from one marriage to another and which are no marriage at all.