Wrong on both counts, so far. I'm not a her and your powers of observation are flawed.
...and the first one here on FR to bad-mouth and denigrate our former troops and desparage their opinions should those former troops take issue with them.
Wrong again...you're batting .ooo. It has everything to do with attitude and nothing to do with former, present, or future service members. We are a military family (Army Ranger, Army Officer, and Marine Corps Staff Sergeant), plus a Firefighter.
I have seen their kind numerous times and am used to them.
You saw what you wanted to see based on your biases and not on logic.
Pay them no mind.
You blew it...bigtime.