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But while rekindling a past love can be wonderful, as it appears it often is, however, accept this cautious note, it is not without risk. Too often, it is a married person who first fantasize, then tempts fate when seeking then seeing an old flame, even when it seems harmless. “You just don’t realize the hold that old love may still have over you,” Kalish says. “Almost one-third of the reunited couples in the project were adulterous relationships. Most of these people had been faithful spouses before they looked up their lost love. I've seen marriages completely blown out of the water by innocently reconnecting with an old flame,” warns Kalish.

Can't say this enough. When one, or the other, or both have moved on, it is best to let go. Sure, cherish those early memories, learn from the mistakes, and build toward that new, more compatible love. Don't lose that true love over some fantasy that wasn't meant to be.