Huh? How'd they do that? If the government in your state, or the federal government passes a law recognizing gay or polygamous marriages, am I to understand that you will immediately be "embracing" these family arrangements, because the government "forced" you to?
Where's the self-government in that? Is our gov't now of by and for the judiciary? We might as well save money and get rid of elections and legislators all together.
Self-government is when free people decide for themselves what they recognize as valid and worthwhile -- not when they buy into whatever list the government hands them. If we just ignore the government-authored lists, the government will eventually stop authoring them.