[Salman]

Which never made sense to me: if a person is truely gay, wouldn't they find the idea of "normal" sex repulsive? Most gays say they knew they were different early very on, like most of us start to notice the opposite sex in our pre-teens. So I wonder of they're really gay.

What is 'really gay'? There's all sorts of variations. Was Oscar Wilde 'really gay'? He had a wife and two children.

[longtermmemmory]

so was he "gay" or just really really snoooty. Could just be post-death homosexuality. (s) didn't you hear, all dead famous good people were really homosexuals. (/s)

[Brian Allen]

[The sodomist] .... Oscar Wilde ... had a wife and [She had] two children.

As for "gay?"

But the corrupt misappropriation by degenerate deviants of a previously wonderfully and beautifully innocent word.

I am gay -- as in the wholesome useage of the whole word -- "happy and .... "

As distinct FRom the lately most-frequently used acronym:
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