I tend to concur. Also, ran across somewhere a rumble from "the other side" that gay-marriage proponents feel that the issue may have been precipitated prematurely, that gays took the wicked Lawrence decision to be a starting gun for "do what you want".
Also see that the Dems are not happy about these "sooners" jumping into a hot-button issue with both feet. They hoped to slip the issue this year, and frankly so do the Bush people. The Bush Administration has actually been very pro-gay, thanks to the insider lobbying by the Log Cabins and closeted power gays.
You can't politick against someone you don't know is politicking against you.