[visualops]

Exactly. My Dad did top secret work in the Pentagon and his work was never discussed in any way shape or form. The Pentagon CounterIntelligence Agency checks out everyone, they even did a check on my first husband when I got married.
The notion that one has some sort of discretion to divulge top secret info/identities in a personal relationship is such a pile of crap.

[Dianna]

The notion that one has some sort of discretion to divulge top secret info/identities in a personal relationship is such a pile of crap.

All the time my husband was in the Navy, I rarely had anything but a vague idea of where he was traveling. And aboard the boat, I learned to stop asking, "What's that?" because I rarely got an answer.