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Not for me, thanks. But I think it touches on something I've seen locally- women neuter their husbands the minute they get the ring. They control the money, the free time, what family to spend time with, child rearing, decision-making, etc. What they give their husbands in return is sex. It's sickening, really.

Guys, do you want a woman like this? And ladies, do you want a man you can steamroll like this? I know I don't. I want a man to be a man, not a spineless piece of flesh who's only reason for existence is to have sex at the expense of his self-esteem and self-worth.

way to go

"women neuter their husbands the minute they get the ring"

Not without the husband's cooperation.

Guys, do you want a woman like this? And ladies, do you want a man you can steamroll like this? I know I don't. I want a man to be a man, not a spineless piece of flesh who's only reason for existence is to have sex at the expense of his self-esteem and self-worth.

We men tend to be idiots. We give up all of our power to women (with a lot of encouragement from mothers, popular culture, and the media), thinking it's just the natural order of things, and then feel lucky just to get (some) sex in return. The root of it is a feeling of scarcity - that if a man doesn't let this one woman have her way with his life, he will never find another.

But that's ludicrous. There is an inexhaustable supply of women. Billions of them. You have all the power - never, ever give it up to a woman, or she will turn into the "neutering" type almost by default, no matter how good her character or pleasant her disposition seems.

Guys, do you want a woman like this?

NO!

Guys, do you want a woman like this?

A control freak? No way. I'd go insane.

Guys, do you want a woman like this?

No way, But then again I think every guy says this but many woman just know how to wear a guy down to the point where the guy finds it easier to just give in instead of dealing with it.

I tend to ß¡†©¶ proof which is probably why I'm still single, Either the woman wants to treat you like crap or she wants to be treated like crap by you, It's hard to find a happy middle.

But as they say the biggest problem in marriage is immediately after a couple gets married the woman wants her husband to change but the guy wants his wife to stay exactly the same.

Hola Princess Warrior!! Since you're asking... I agree with you. Our culture dictates that it will be as you have described. American 'men' are competing to see how metrosexual they can be while American women are in perpetual competition for slut of the month.

I've dated immigrant Mexican, Vietnamese, and Thai women with more sense than any Americanized 'indoctrinated' women here in So Cal. They get it. They haven't been bombarded with all the BS coming out of the media. Like the article said, 'What's mine is mine and what's his is mine' - What's my incentive to hook up with someone like that?

In general, American women have a chip on their shoulder and a sense of entitlement that I'm not willing to put up with. They demand a lot, but often have nothing to offer in return (except for sex, but I'm gettin' too old to fall for that again). I'm successful. I know how to manage money. That's MY job - OK. End of debate. Unless you've got a PHD in economics, forget about getting near it. She can live off a percentage of the interest - Ok? (If she's frugal) Our time on Earth is valuable - why can't I be a little bit fussy when it comes to selecting who I want to share my time with. Does that make me a barbarian? Maybe I think that I am entitled to have a little bit of control in my life.

Right now I've got me a hot sexy Mexican mama!! She understands me!! Could be serious!! She works hard (by choice), is successful, and we communicate well. It's a partnership and we both understand that.

PS - Sorry for the rant. Is that you firing those kick ass guns on your profile? I don't even know what that one is. All I ever shot was a 22 rifle and a few different shotguns, hunting squirrels, rabbits, and pheasants when I was growing up.