Somewhere we need to find a happy medium.
I respectfully suggest that the interpretation of doctrine that suggests that Jews, being necessary for the End of Days that Christianity envisions; and having their own, separate, Covenant with God; the difference of the Covenants each people has established with God be recognized as God's will and thus not to be tampered with by man.
"For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile--the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him" - Romans 10:12
My proposal is that Christians follow their religion and Jews follow theirs.
WHY??? when just telling the person to bug off works as well and does not require Christians to abandon their faith so you can be happy.