I agree to the extent that this is a problem of perception. But I disagree with you about where the blame lies.
churchillbuff is correct that Christian evangelism is at worst a nuisance, and is easily dismissed if one isn't interested. To blame Christians for "forcing" an adversarial relationaship is, to use the author's word, risible. It is also sadly delusional.
Jews who spend even one moment worrying themselves over the "threat" of Christian evangelism, as compared to the murderous threat of Islamofascism, are indulging in a foolish --and potentially tragic--distraction.
I agree. I am not justifying the perception, only explaining where it comes from, and how it came to be as it is.