You will hear all kinds of homosexuals say all kinds of things......just like you will finds different kinds of straight people. The gay people I know are professionals, lawyers, doctors, even some who do PR for the Republican party, and they aren't narcissistic, and they've been in relationships longer than most of the straight people I know.
When it comes to worshipping the creation over the creator, that's a problem with our American society in general......that's pop culture for you. I agree though, its a problem
It was a flaw in the young man's logic to think that because he was homosexual, or chooses to have sex with men, that he was not attracted to me and that what he did was not rude.